Friendship is the bond of affection, trust and respect. True friends help you in yours ups and downs of your life. Hence, friends are important but most us unable to make friends. One can try following steps :
1. Approach person belonging to your common area e.g. school, college, office. This will provide a way how to choose the person of your type and how it that individual is related to you field and background, hence it will increase your chances of becoming extrovert.
2. You should be available in around to whom you want befriend. When you will be there for ones up and down then automatically you will come closer to that person. This will enhance the bonding between you and the person whom you want to make a good friend.
3. Start slow and try to be a good listener. This will give a habit of being learner and inculcate empathy towards the source, the person whom you are talking. You know in this busy word no one want to listen others if you have quality of listening other people the kudos! you will get more friends than you think of in no time.
4. Talk slowly and give authentic information about yourself. This will enhance the bonding and increase the mutual trust between two of you. This is one of the most important and it will act like foundation for high rise building.
5. Understand the person thought process and then respond. This helps in knowing each other in depth which will help in plastering like gypsum in cement.👬As if we someone better we will generate trust automatically and will be a friendship for life.
6. Meet frequently for example at coffee, lunch, public transport. Frequent meet ups boost interest in each other and maintain consistency for true friendship. One can also plan good trips which will give you more time to know each other which will help in making you extrovert and know how friendly you are.
7. Slowly steadily share and ask personal affairs with due respect. Never underestimate your potential always talk nicely be confident and ready to accept your mistake. These qualities break you from the chain of shyness and you will see change in yourself in a week or two.
8. Last but not least try to give your cent percent when your bond strengthen. Instead of trying all these if you are not getting the results then you talk to your closed ones it could be your sibling, uncle, mother or father. They will understand your problem, further you can also attend some of good sessions of physiatrist, but should be your last step.
I hope these steps will help you making some of the good friends for life. In my case I have three friends from college which I have made using these steps hope it helps you too also. Nothing is constant in your life you have came out of many problems this shall also pass do not worry and be happy! Cheers! Kudos to you.
All these steps if followed by someone then they will automatically see the results in future. I have seen following this steps by my friends they have got some of the friends for life. Hope you liked this article if then you should please tell us in the comment box and feel free to share with your friends. With this I will get motivation to write on these topics and help you to make your life more easy.
Having a good friendship make you realize the real meaning of life. If one has best friends then they could live life at fullest without any trouble hence one should aspire for it and also be better with them so one could live life happily.
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